Healing Betrayals

 “An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.”                 
Buddha

Dealing with betrayals is never an easy job especially when the betrayer is your close friend..You might be thinking what happened to my usual jovial mood so to be honest I have been facing treacheries and friend betrayal since first grade. But even that’s not a reason for me to write this blog. It is because I have recently faced same kind of situation for I think twentieth time.

Everyone of us had faced same kind of problem under different circumstances.So, what do you do when you come to know that you have been betrayed? The natural reactions would obviously be anger,depression and revenge. You will hate yourself for trusting someone who even didn’t deserve that.. But these revengeful thought would only make it difficult for you to let them out of your life and move on. The trick is to let go and move forward. Though it seems difficult and frightening at first but after sometime you would realize that how fruitful it was for you to move on because crying over spill milk never rewards.

If you still want to continue your friendship then do it with sensibility.First talk to your friend and tell them how their behavior hurt you and you don’t want them to repeat their mistake again.Albeit its not a perfect idea but it would help you to save your relation.

Betrayal,love, merriness and miseries are another name for life. Every soul on this planet had been hurt once..So instead of letting yourself down and dreading for your mistake to trust some one wrong. Leave those betrayers and move away. Never lose hope for betterment cauz you never know what future might holds for you!

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